I just want to maximize my chances at reconciliation.
That happens with steps and actions. Not with inaction. Furthermore, sending an innocuous text wishing W a Happy 4th isn't going to break the camel's back.
For me, the worst thing in sending my text to Ms. Wonka is a "f*ck you!" A-ok. I can continue living my life as I always have regardless of how Ms. Wonka responds or does not respond. I've learned that people DO respond fairly well to light, breezy texts.
Just the other day, my old college friend sent a text asking "How are you, sweetums?" Thorn, how did you think I responded to that light, breezy text? Exactly.
Seriously you've got to lose your fear and being so paralyzed with over-analyzing a simple text.
Another thought to mull over:
Energy is neutral. How you use it and what you do with it is up to you.
