My H's MLC

[Ssarah]

I have a general ? about MLCers. My H is constantly going through my things and I dont get what he's looking for. He checks who I talk to and how often. This part I'm assuming is to try and figure out who knows and how much they know (specifically about OW) since he's questioned me about it before. He doesn't want his reputation tarnished and wants this all on me when it comes out. But why go through my car, draws and every night my work bag (wallet, planner, etc.). I have nothing to hide so I don't know if I should leave it or start putting my bag in our bedroom while I sleep and locking my car. He is so nuts that this weekend while I went to feed my son his 5am bottle, he went through my nightstand and took some notes I had written out about advice from my DB coach. I specifically had it in my DR book and he went and took it. Nothing bad, just about detaching. I just don't know what to do about things like that anymore and I don't get why he's doing it (other than being off his rocker).