I guess I'm afraid of making a mistake, Wonka.

Paralysis by analysis.

I've been thinking about sending her something funny lately but holding firm to everyone's advice to stay dark.

That being dark was working because she was starting to text and ask a few questions, albeit painfully slow.

Do you think it's been long enough (almost 2 months) for me to initiate something? I don't want her to feel like I'm pursuing. But I also don't want her to think I just want to be friends or that I don't want her anymore.

How do I balance this?