My ex was exactly the same - couldnt ask for a discount. Would go so far out of his way not to risk offending anyone.

Exactly - healthy, happy kids and a roof over your head - how lucky are we!!

Keep taking care of yourself. Spend some money on yourself, maybe a babysitter just so you can grab coffee with a friend. Go to the gym, lots of gyms have free babysitting. I would go when my kids were young and work out for 20 mins then spend 40 showering/changing in peace and quiet in the locker room.

Sometime my girlfriend and I go IKEA with the free playroom and we go have lunch in the restaurant.

I also joined Alanon and I love it. I have made a ton of friends in my area.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13