The morning sun is shining like a red rubber ball.

[wishing, hoping]

I know when my exH attends any of the kids events (the very few he does) - he glues himself to me, trying to be my friend and be helpful and its honestly getting super annoying. He is so strange sometimes I wish his girlfriend was there to deal with him.

You are right, BK. Usually J is at my side like glue and is super nice and super helpful and super annoying. I think one of the reasons she is going to make an appearance is to make sure J keeps his distance from me. I think she is threatened by me and dare I say a bit jealous. Perhaps she doesn't trust J? And honestly, why would she? I sure wouldn't if I was her.

I think J is just out to get what he can get from her. I think he thinks daddy is going to leave OW a large inheritance and J wants in on it. It makes sense that J wanted my mom to move in with us so badly and when she finally told him to buzz off, he really didn't want anything to do with my family any longer. He stopped coming home with me on visits and really had nothing to say about her. Then he was insistent his mom move in with us, even though when I asked him questions about her care and her health he had no good answers. When I said it wasn't a good idea he closed me off and decided to look for another sugar momma. And his mom had no money anyway. I don't know what he was thinking. But with J, if he believes it to be true then it is true, even if it isn't. (Boy that was circular talk, wasn't it).

So he thinks daddy warbucks is going to leave OW a large chunk of money. Once that happens and J has put in his time and is sure he can get that money, he will leave OW high and dry. He won't have to pay her a dime, because they have no kids together and knowing how J spends money, she will have to carry on part of the debt they have together. I can read J like a book. I think I got off easy.

I hope karma works quickly. My popcorn is getting stale.

WH