Thorn,

You cannot go completely dark on W. That is not the purpose of DBing. Do what works and monitor. You don't want to appear pursuing W.

In my case, the last time Ms. Wonka and I exchanged texts was back in late March. I plan to send her a simple "Hope you have a wonderful 4th Weekend. Bring on the sparklers! Game on! Have fun!" this week. And leave it at that with zero expectations.