Okay your H and my exH totally fits my theory and the No More Mr. Nice Guy Thing

Basically your H really wants this OW sexually but he cant admit that to you or to himself because that would make him a scumbag. Your H thinks of himself as a Nice Guy. He is not like tony Soprano, getting laid where ever he can - he is a decent man.

But your H desperately wants this woman cause even when/if they are not intimate I bet she kis$es his a$$ in ways you couldnt imagine. She treats him like he is the smartest guy in the room. You on the other hand have 2 young kids and dont have time to kiss his a$$ all day, you probably need his help.

In order for your H to still be a Nice Guy and sleep with this woman, your H needs to make you out to be the BIGGEST B!itch in the world. So thats the route he is gonna take.

So so sad. My exH was an amazing dad and very close to our older D. He is now so distant from her, its very sad. But on the bright side I am a more amazing mom now then before. My kids are so so lucky and so am I.

Dont forget to always count your blessings


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13