BklynMom he hasnt flat out declared his love for her but at least he stopped denying it (baby steps). A few weeks ago we had a convo that I was trying to avoid where he wanted to remind me that this is all my fault and I brought this on myself. I couldn't take it anymore so I asked him to stop blaming me and to own up to what he's doing. I told him that I know he is with her, among other things, pointed out that her makeup is on his clothes, her dark ratty hair in my laundry (I'm blonde) and that he just needs to stop pretending. He just met me with stares.

As for his phone he is either on instagram or espn or is listening to music when in our presence. Because he is so paranoid at covering up his A, I think he has a seperate phone to communicate with her. I saw a receipt for a new iphone so I'm assuming its for that purpose. He locked me out of our family plan and did something to our bill because now the payment alerts I receive are for 1/2 the amount they used to be monthly. Maybe he took himself off the family plan and made his own? I don't know and ATT won't tell me. That's another thing I have to deal with him about, transfering my number to a seperate account so he can stop stalking my account. ATT won't let me do it without his consent.

Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home