I'm contemplating sending a text to H both so he knows and for legal purposes. I just don't want him to use me not allowing then to go away for the weekend as me keeping the boys from him. I want it to be clear they are allowed to go with HIM. But due to the fact that I know he is going with her alone (I'm pretty sure he doesn't think I know because he told me 'everyone' is going which is not the case and who knows what defines who everyone actually is) I believe it's in the boys best interest not to put that in the situation.
Any thoughts? I thought of sending somethjng like this...
The boys would be more than happy to go with you if you are going alone but if you're going with someone else it's in their best interest to be alone with their dad not to be confused anymore
And as a side note so you all are aware. He does not ask to take the boys. The reason he offered to take them was because i sent him a text with my updated schedule because my lawyer and my DB coach advised me to give him my schedule so he has access to the boys without having to see me. So since my days changed I sent him a text about me working Friday and Saturday and I told him I had nobody to watch the boys. So that's where he brought up he wouldn't be staying in town and would have to take them with him.
No, no, no... do NOT do this.
This is dirty work, this is something for your attorney.
You never gave the update, what did your other attorneys say about a no contact order?
***IANAL***Also, you are no several months (over 90 days) into the D itself... You should be well beyond the scope of requiring an "emergency hearing" to address basics, such as sole use of the home, parenting times & no contact orders. What does your attorney say?
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
