Originally Posted By: bugsby
Well, if she is a co - worker, reported to HR it would make them both think twice.

How do you know it would make them think twice, there are many reactions that could happen.

As 25 says-Stay in your own sandbox.

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My thought would be to put pressure on the "love bubble of affair", and make them identify some serious consequences - more than just my homelife. This is an industry of integrity, but I really don't know if it would matter much, but my WS is very, VERY worried about and concerned with his professional image.
I think it may create stress... but I really don't know. I'd have to find out who she was anyway. Currently it is only a hunch - but a really good one.

But I would certainly NOT be the one to "drop that bomb".

As far as OW - she's not worth my time.

Remind me how you know for sure what's going on affair-wise.

Codependent No More-Have you read that one? If not, do.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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