Wife is Continuing Affair-When do I Start LRT III

[PeterV2]

Dev, I got the same reaction after I stood my ground a while back. I locked her out of my computer and told her no R talk until A is over. She told me "I'm done." and "We're done" I endured a very icy day. I thought I was pooched.
But the following weekend she came home and told me the A was over. She wanted me to hold her to see what it feels like.
I know our Ws are different, but by making a stand will garner that reaction initially. Remember, she still has the PEA induced brain and cannot think clearly. Give it some time. Things often get worse before they get better. That's part of healing. Hang in there.

And guilt laden
I'm inadequate
And I'm done
You just don't know when
It doesn't matter
I am done

I am a little concerned about her stability. You may tell her that there is the potential for forgiveness and that will over time ease the guilt. You already addressed the inadequacy.