Guys I know she is defintely cake eating. The eggshells ive been walking on for the last month after she told me she was leaving when the kids finshed school are all swept up . She hasnt left although I found a list that was definitely a grocery order for a new place (mop , bucket ,broom , cup towels etc )so she was thinking about it . I DBed and backed way off and it seemed to have relaxed her . She is defintely doing alot of thinking .I think the OM is pressuring her to go with him but it is a huge move and one she shouldnt make and she knows it . The text messages tha he sent the other night are wacked and you can see some desparation on his part . All kinds of " love this and love that" garbage . it sounds like a in love teenager . Maybe shes starting to see that this gone too far because the reality of leaving is right there and theres no turning back after that for me . Once she leaves the story will come out , fully to everybody and she knows it . I feel like ive gained alittle control back because it seems the threat of leaving was just that , a threat . However I dont want to abuse my new power so I have to be careful , right ? I believe shes going to see him today but I said have nice day very pleasantly and i recieved a hug and a kiss on the cheek . Not talking about the affair and the other man does keep her happier and much more like her old self but its hard to do .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )