Hi Lost, I've been having an issue similar to yours regarding WAW. She really only contacts when she needs help with something.... and I always oblige! Perhaps we should not be obliging but then that goes against the 'being a friend' advice. Can the vets can help with this?!?!
As for the boat. Perhaps now is the time to step back. Initiate no contact. If he texts then do not respond. If he persists tell him you are busy and he'll need to do it himself (in a non-confrontational manner :-))
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14