Gotta say I agree with czzamo about telling your mom it's okay to let go. I told my dad that as well, and it seemed to make a difference.
We all love you here, TL. (((((((Giant group Hug)))))))))
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell