hmmmm... I am not sure that I want to give up complete hope... but, I am willing to put it ... way over >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>there.
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Progress: Not indulging in his attempt to "chat" about "his" real estate dilemma. He even was trying to be light hearted & called it "ours", if "we" get the place.
...... whatever
I barely lifted my head from the computer to acknowledge the convo. He eventually left the office & went back to work outside.
When I texted later to inform him of a client deposit, he texted back "great, cheers"... didn't acknowledge that either.
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I can't be bothered to be "involved" in things that don't involve me... as much as I "want" to be... the reality is that these are the "things" that keep me hooked/there. I don't want to subject myself to this kind of stuff anymore. If we are done, then "we" are done.
I sure hope this is progress.
My friend pointed out tonight that her son is causing her grief and treating her poorly. Her comment is "I love you, but"... I love you but, I will not allow you to treat me like this. Unacceptable. I understand that statement (she loves him dearly...its her son!!). I can now put context to what I need/continue to do as well.
"I love him, but..."
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
