Hi Mat,

I feel your pain, as my W moved into a new place of her own today.

Thanks for providing the article on being the WAW's friend. I also saw this issue on p. 161 of DR, which brought up "unconditional" friendship being what worked for "Don".

But it just seems to make more sense to stay away, don't pursue and let your W work on these issues herself. Good Luck.

Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace