Well, that didn't take long, not sure if this is initial response or what, but this is the text exchange that just happened. I feel sick, but I need to stay strong. Clearly, I've shaken her up. Not sure what to believe. Just finished my hike, gonna make me some tuna togarashi wraps, and go to hockey. Comments of course are welcome. Thanks for all the support!
I pick it up when she tells me thanks for getting her back because the kids were tired:
Dev: They went to sleep at 9:30. If you want to hear why, I'd love to talk about it. I was with them for 2 and a half hours. Sorry they are tired.
WAW: I don't.
WAW: Your email was enough I'm done
Dev:I'm sorry you feel that way, I had lots of discussion there.
WAW:Nope
Dev: Did you see the questions I asked?
WAW: Don't know
DEV: Take some time, there's no rush
WAWIt's not a discussion. It's threats. I'm done with it all
DEV: No threat implied at all WAW. I need to stand up for what is best for our family. You know where I stand, there is no threat at all.
WAW: And guilt laden I'm inadequate And I'm done You just don't know when It doesn't matter I am done
DEV: I'm sorry you feel that way, I meant everything I said Your are not inadequate at all
WAW: Our kids are [censored] No matter what So that helps I have nothing else to say to you But keep that other email And hide any cards you have from me before I destroy them like the others
So that was the extent of that. Pretty obvious to me she glossed over everything else and saw I would not be her friend, and that's what's happening. Either way what did I have to lose. She's on her way out anyways, and I need to make a stand. I want to fight for her. But I have to improve myself. She has to realize I'm not always going to be there. She has said the type of stuff up there before. But I'm not sure if this time she means it.
