^^^^^^ you're going to need to set some boundaries. She needs to understand where you're coming from/how serious you are. Again, it really took BD for me to "get it".

Your issues go deeper than lack of sex (no pun intended). Your communication needs to improve before your R can. I'm sure you know this, but you gotta figure out how to get through to her on this.


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5