Great job Ben. Don't fret the hand on the knee thing. I would have done the same just to test the waters, but her not reciprocating in not really a negative. More neutral. Her behaviour seems to say she's thinking of coming back. Especially asking you to move to FL with her. That's huge. She's obviously planning for you to part of her future life and that's a good thing. As for the condition that you two work it out, do you know what patterns of behaviour split you two up? If so do you have a plan to break free of those patterns and move into a new, stronger and more conscious relationship?
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014