Well, if she is a co - worker, reported to HR it would make them both think twice.

My thought would be to put pressure on the "love bubble of affair", and make them identify some serious consequences - more than just my homelife. This is an industry of integrity, but I really don't know if it would matter much, but my WS is very, VERY worried about and concerned with his professional image.
I think it may create stress... but I really don't know. I'd have to find out who she was anyway. Currently it is only a hunch - but a really good one.

But I would certainly NOT be the one to "drop that bomb".

As far as OW - she's not worth my time.



Last edited by bugsby; 07/01/14 12:28 AM.
Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.