All right... I've been reading other people's threads. I need to think about a baby step that would mark an improvement in our relationship.
One is to try to pour on the words of affirmation as thick as is sincere and see what happens.
One is I would like to be able to have an actual conversation with him that is pleasant and not awkward and not really about the kids. We started to over dinner, but it was with the kids and got interrupted when S8 threw up.
I guess that's an ambitious start...
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15