MLP, I'm sorry you haven't gotten more feedback yet.
I read your initial posts carefully and skimmed the second page. I'm glad you read the whole book rather than mainly the MLC section.
I wouldn't worry about diagnosing MLC and identifying stages. That's kind of a cheeseless tunnel. As obvious as these MLCs look to us, that may not be how he's experiencing all this and since he's not behaving rationally or fairly you won't be able to know how he IS experiencing it all.
He has been very rough on you and I'm so sorry for that. Your sitch is very new so it's going to be a roller coaster for a good long while. Next week marks the one year anniversary of my BD#1 and I'm only just now learning calm. It took me much longer to find DR than you and it's fair to say I probably wouldn't have believed it applied to me any sooner anyway. So good for you for dealing with your stuff head on so promptly.
Good for you for standing up for yourself and good luck with the job opportunity!
I was wondering if you've done much thinking about your M to see how you got here?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
