D day in 2 weeks Should I give a goodbye card?

[cczamo]

Labug, you are right, of course, about closure being a process, and not a single act. I’m working on the grief and acceptance, however the DB’er in me keeps that door cracked open just a little and therein lies my conflict: I’m not moving forward because my infinitesimally small glimmer of hope that DBing might work-- it is holding me back, I guess. And what you said about communicating anything to him will make him go in the opposite direction is spot on.