Georgiabelle, I just read through some of your sitch and I can't believ how similar our situations are. The way your relationship was before BD and the things your H did after. I'm not caught up yet but I'm hoping you're in better times now. My H hasn't moved out yet but I feel like it's coming. I can't see him staying in our house for long.

Curious, when you say it gets much much better are you referring to when the MLCer moves out, or the process in general? Because right now I feel like I'm still on my way down with much more chaos and dread in sight.


Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home