I will watch the video tonight. I watched a few of hers on YouTube awhile back and I'm pretty sure you are the one that gave me the links.
So I don't know how to explain in words exactly how I feel about what you meant by saying that to your W. I totally agree. I did have fault in our M. However, and I don't mean this arrogantly, I don't believe EITHER of our faults in the M were worth him cheating with someone else whether it was EA or PA. I'm pretty sure it was EA until he left. I am totally wanting to listen to him and hear his grievances. However it is hard for me to want to do that while he has someone else in the picture that is so involved/controlling.
I also struggle because what he has told other people why he left are things that could have been fixed if he really communicated. I am by no means eradicating my faults to our M but just trying to explain my thoughts as clear as I can via the internet lol. I just struggle with if you were so unhappy why have a contractor come over why make plans for the future to just leave one day. I know your W did something similar.
Sorry if this is all over the place. I guess I just believe people deserve a chance to make things right and people deserve to know something is wrong instead of discussing it with other people. He felt there was no point in talking tome about it. I know that is my fault for I guess making him feel that way but if I made you feel that way and you don't tell me I never know.
