Well I do think something similar to that needs to be brought up. Like I said we've never really sat and talked. I just got an I'm unhappy it's over. It's a hard pill to swallow and I don't expect to ever get any answers that are genuinely the truth. I did get a lot of insight to the OW over the weekend and knowing my H I'm Pretty sure I've figured out how everything played out.
I've been having crazy dreams lately that H has come home and I told him I couldn't forgive him. It has happened the last 3 nights I wake up feeling like it was so real!
I will be waiting a long time before I bring this up because it may be the only chance I get and I need to make sure it's right in the timing, sentiment, and word choice. Probably a few months down the road