I don't think I'm anywhere close to having him be ready for that conversation. But I do think it's something I need to do
He's not at the point to ask me anything. Last Wednesday was the first 'good' practice we had. And he initiated text for 2 days after that. I need him to be much more talkative to me and need it to be consistent I think in. Order to say those things.
I don't want to scare him off since I don't even think he's barely peaked his head out of the shell
I think it is a good sign you are keenly aware this may not be the right time.
Again, I am NOT suggesting you do this (although it may seem I like I am). It felt right for me, and I would not change how or when I did it.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13