Originally Posted By: T0324
I don't think I'm anywhere close to having him be ready for that conversation. But I do think it's something I need to do

He's not at the point to ask me anything. Last Wednesday was the first 'good' practice we had. And he initiated text for 2 days after that. I need him to be much more talkative to me and need it to be consistent I think in. Order to say those things.

I don't want to scare him off since I don't even think he's barely peaked his head out
of the shell


I think it is a good sign you are keenly aware this may not be the right time.

Again, I am NOT suggesting you do this (although it may seem I like I am). It felt right for me, and I would not change how or when I did it.


Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13