You are approaching this from an non detached point of view. Your viewpoint should be you do not care if she is happy or sad on this vacation. Your only concern should be what you are going to be doing during that time. Do not even think about that vacation or the fact that you are missing it for the first time in 15 years. It is just a trip. And forget about what other people are telling her. I know it is tough and you want to have that advocate out there pushing your agenda. Well, you DO have that advocate. The strongest one in fact. And that is YOU. It is not words that will matter, it is actions. Focus on your actions. That means GAL and 180 and DETACH.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
