She left a teenage son and a H. I know that a few years ago she was talking about her H cheating on her and she might need to D him. I dont know if this is what caused her to make this awful decision. I noticed that my BIL used Hs e-mail which he is no longer using. So, I forwarded the e-mail to H. No response so far. I wonder if this news depressed him. After all, she was a happy, outgoing, positive woman. Not like Hs negative W (me)
My W has had many deaths close to her in the past couple years, including a Mom with a newborn who killed herself. She handled them all quite well, in an even better than normal fashion, in my opinion. Maybe your H will too. My guess is since they are already hyper focused on their own mortality, it's not as big of a deal.
And regardless of what H may think, everyone else sees you as positive person now, right?
Last edited by ForeverYoung; 06/30/1406:42 PM.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
