Take one day at a time. It'll be a new normal for you and it may be a better normal. Sometimes we don't realize how much drama and chaos is going on in our lives until were separated. I know. It's taken 7 months for me and well I worked hard and have found peace and really don't want what it was if we were together. Part of this change for most of us DBing is that the change happens inside each one of us, not the S. If the S was working on him/herself then we wouldn't need to be here wondering what happened. You can make the difference by yourself. Believe many of us have done just that and are more content and can find serenity.
