Just curious as to what people do to forget/forgive the ugly,mean and the cheating the spouse does?
One minute I'm okay I'm past it and can move on and the next I think about it and hate him.
It's hard to continue on with the stages when...with are you doing this for creaps in. Then I think are you crazy?? especially when you have a H that hates you 1 minute and wants to be friends the next. I try as best I can to limit contact and only for kids.

I know it's part of the process but I just wondered how other people handle it?

M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.