W reached out to me twice on Saturday asking for help. The first I understood but the second I'm certain she could've answered on her own. She called me again regarding the first this morning and I helped her. I texted her a while later about an upcoming birthday party for my son to see if she'd sent out invites. She said no and that she's such a "slacker." She then said about herself "I need to get my s**t together. Just too much stress I can't keep up." Same complaints she had before the separation. My instinct as a husband is to ask if there is anything I can do with regards to the kids to help but she seems to be increasingly needy and I don't want to enable her. The kids are coming to stay with me in 3 days for an entire month. Just looking for advice on how I should respond.
Me - 44 Her - 35 S - 6 D - 8 Married - 8 Together - 11 Separated - 5/17/2014 Divorce filed - 6/3/2014
