I would not mention to your H the move out date. For his hysterical behavior he has a lot of pent up anger. Stay away from him.

Check out the The No More Mr. Nice Guy website

Take care of yourself and get help for you and the kids. Maybe a cleaning lady or a mothers helper. Having 2 so little is so so hard.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13