She can get mad. Your fear of her emotional reaction doesn't mean you don't bring it up. If she gets mad you can say, I love you and this is important to me. We can talk more tomorrow after we've had some time to think.

If she's not willing, she's not willing.

Then you have an answer of sorts.

and decisions to make.

You're crystal ball reading and scripting of everything is probably getting you just what you're getting.

Last edited by labug; 06/30/14 03:20 PM.
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss