honestly... "once he gets through (blah, blah), he will come back" ... Is what plays in my head but I don't know that for fact. It is called hope & many of the posters on this board have it.
I continue to have hope... I am not banking on it.
I continue to find ways to drop the rope, and uncling from his pant leg. I actually look at each situation/conversation & find a way out.
During this past weekend, it was difficult to not want to be involved in all the hoopla of his business investment/strategy. He kept me informed of his thoughts & how he was going to present the offer, etc. I just listened. He is scared. Scared that if he doesn't buy this place that he will be overwhelmed more than ever & will never get out of the state he is in. The only question I really had was about what it will mean to me as a partner (cost). He said that he would only charge our business for heat, hydro & taxes. That he is not trying to profit off our company. This sounds fair.
It is so unlike me to not hound him with 1000 questions & my point of view. I am really taking a back seat to all of this.
Struggling, although doing it... replacing negative thoughts with positive ones.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
