How does one resist not to snoop? I have this nagging voice that something is going on at the workplace but I can't confirm and nor has he shared anything. Truthfully, I don't know that he will ever come clean. He's been spending a lot of time at work. He makes certain that he wears cologne everyday which is different from his previous behavior. The cologne was reserved for me and he didn't care about wearing it to work.
Oh, resisting the urge to snoop is tough. I think of a couple of things related to that:
1. What do you hope to accomplish by snooping? Do you expect to find an affair (EA or PA)? If you did find out either way... How would that effect you and the path you take?
2. You sound like a person of strong faith, I would simply suggest when you get the urge to snoop.... Pray for comfort and strength until the urge passes.
Originally Posted By: CMF
Would it be wrong for me to ask his coworker to be my eyes and ears?
Yes it would be VERY WRONG.
Originally Posted By: CMF
What would be the best way to handle this?
You need to begin to detach from him (in a loving way). Pray to God to help him with wisdom, patience and to soften his heart.
Furthermore, re read the part on LRT. Live every line of it.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13