Why did you have children with him? Because I wanted children. I don't mean to be flippant; I don't know that I put much thought into his role.
And what will be each of your roles after divorce?
Is this really going to be good for your children?
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What has changed? Pre-kids I did my thing, he did his, and when together we did ours. Due to work and school schedules, we had alot of apart time. Once kids came, I think the clash of our different priorities became apparent.
Why will things be better when you are divorced? Because I will feel comfortable in my own home. Because I will be free to do what I want without H telling me why I can't, shouldn't, or what I don't know.
Love is a choice.
How is he stopping you from being comfortable? Why will someone else make you more comfortable?
I agree with Underdog that you are responsible for your own happiness. The relationship is not responsible for this.
Getting divorced is not going to make you HAPPY.
I also agree that you should work on those issues first before you get divorced.
