People who post to you here do it because we've been where you are, or close. We've taken a hard look at our actions and what contributed to the break up of our marriages.
We've accepted that we can't change our spouse. Only they can decide to change. Our pressuring them, shaming them, trying to create consequences only hurts us.
If you have a budget for your own personal spending, hers should be the same.
If you're in a community property state, I believe half of the marital assets are hers.
Good luck. Perhaps Mr Bond will come along.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
