Hi 25,
Please pay attention to the context of a post. The post that you site about talking about my FIL being a Sociopath was in response to a question from Georgiabelle about if her girls were destined to have messed up relationships or MLC's of their own because of how their FATHER was behaving. The entire post had to do with how my W, someone I know went through a horrible parental divorce and who had her father abandon her, responded to that. It was not me blaming, or complaining or restating or anything of that nature at all. The only person that NEEDED to understand that was Georgia. And that post was not about my taking or not taking any course of action now.

It is frustrating to have to read a post that complains about things that aren't the case. I was not talking about my FIL being the CAUSE of anything or how wacky my W was or even my MARITAL history. The question was from a woman who was very upset and worried about her kids and I answered her in the best way I could. Do you even look or notice if any given post is in response to a question from someone else? The only times in the last weeks that I went into any of the things you seem to want me to "get over" was when I was asked, sometimes by you.

As far as "Please take some of the advice we give here. Please try to GAL and detach"
That is exactly what I'm doing and what my posts that aren't in response to questions are mostly about. I know you are trying to help but please, before you tell me to stop doing this or get over that or infer that I'm ignoring advice please make certain that is the case.

Also, like Wonka, I do find it frustrating that you keep pushing that there is no such thing as MLC or that there HAD to be more that myself as the LBS did to CAUSE my W to do the things she has. That I'm just not facing up to or admitting MY bad actions that lead to my M being "bad". Well, I'm not. I have been as honest as I can and not even my W can tell me the reasons for why she is doing what she is.

As for me and what I'm doing, my GAL activities,the things about myself that I'm working on, read my posts that aren't answering questions and you'll find the answers.