How does one resist not to snoop? I have this nagging voice that something is going on at the workplace but I can't confirm and nor has he shared anything. Truthfully, I don't know that he will ever come clean. He's been spending a lot of time at work. He makes certain that he wears cologne everyday which is different from his previous behavior. The cologne was reserved for me and he didn't care about wearing it to work.
I'm going out of town for several weeks and i'm wondering if this will be his opportunity to pursue something outside the M. My mind keeps spiraling and I can't resist the urge to find out more. If this is truly the end of our M then I want closure. However, I have a feeling he will never confess. Would it be wrong for me to ask his coworker to be my eyes and ears? What would be the best way to handle this?
