Newbie needs help

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I have posted about my wifes family and issues in our marriage. I have mentioned her brother is my best friend. He is someone I have talked with throughout this crisis. he is aware of everything including A. My wife knows I have talked to him but she does not know to what extent. Anyway my brother in law went out ot his fathers <wifes dad> over the weekend. Dad brought up sitch about wife and I and basically said that wife had told her I did something in fall that made her decision to seek a D. They were under impression that I had an A. Brother in law told them that wasn't true. He felt with so much at stake he needed his father to know the truth, So he told him about A. He told them he had not spoken to her but once in 6 months that I have been the stabilizer with kids spending time with him and his kids to keep kids in touch with there cousins. His father and his wife were in shock. I know not to get family involved and I am not the one that instigated this. But the truth is the truth, Her dad may start to question her decisions and at least not be so supportive.