we have one car between my h and, he drives a ute for work, the twins go to daycare twice a week, tomorrow is daycare day, as h has no way of getting the boys there, I'm driving to his place in the morning so he can take them, I asked how he was going to pick them up, he said a taxi, I thought he was serious, then he said, "I might need your help there" I suggested that his mum has a spare car up here at her holiday house, and that maybe he should ask if he could borrow it while shes not up here and he has the boys, he said that there's no way she'd say yes( and he's probably right) but surely it cant hurt to try? so question is, am I 'enabling' or letting 'cake-eat', he has had the opportunity and the money to buy a second hand car, just to drive around town with the boys, and has not made an attempt, that I can see, to change this. I don't know where this comes in with db or dr, input anyone??
