I don't love you anymore

[rayzzz]

Nova today is day two of being separated and believe me if it wasn't for IC and for this board and the supportive people who have "coached" me through the last two months there is no way I would be holding it together ....with hope my M can be salvaged. As long as their is life there is hope. This pain is beyond death but you can emerge even better. Come here often and hard as it is don't share with friends and family, be really discerning or you will not be supported in winning the M.

Now I asked about wearing my ring a couple threads ago and I always wore mine. Wife stopped a few years ago cause they were too small for her.
Then when she dropped the bomb said "we are so beyond rings!" When I wanted her to wear it to fight for our M.
I choose to wear mine and will always wear mine. If I get married again my new W will have to accept I wear this to remind me I will always look after my first wife & kids and never do this to anyone again.
WAW said "why are you still WEARING it?" And a good answer I have her was
"Because it shows where my heart is at" and I just left it there.
Advice I got from my thread is whatever you do. DON'T keep taking it off and on again giving confusing signals. Just wear or don't
Haven't read much about your GAL's . Do something new for you each week. Better yourself for yourself and her. I now qigong(awesome stress reliever), ultimate frisbee, workout, go nightclubbing and see live pub bands with brand new and rekindled old friends. Become the man only a fool would leave. We are all rooting for you