Yikes...your posts are still almost all about your w and her father. We don't have anything to tell them, b/c neither your wife nor her father are here working on the marriage.
You also wrote that we "need to understand that her father is a sociopath..."
Well, NO Matt, we don't NEED to understand that. Seriously. Your father in law has nothing to do with your course of action now.
No matter how many times you write out/re-write your whole marital history - and or how wacky she is or was,
or how selfish she was or is, OR how evil or crazy her father is or was, All we can help you with are YOUR CHOICES, NOW. And they are the only things you have control over.
So, back to you...any specific traits you want to work on to become the man you were meant to become?
Which GAL activities help you most to become that guy?
You know, we hammer the whole "GAL" thing for one reason...we know it works.
Please take at least some of the advice we give. Please try to GAL and Detach...
it will help you and your daughters a lot more than repeating the marital history and staying stuck.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
