Hey Tad, I now know that by doing things like asking my W to go and do things as a family, things that I just saw as normal H/W activities, my W saw as pressure. I may not understand why or how she got to that point but I know it's the case. What we, who aren't suffering from MLC see as loving gestures they saw as us pressuring them to feel a way they just couldn't.
Blieve me I'm not making excuses for them or saying they were right to feel that way. In hind sight I can see it now. MLC makes them think differently then we do or they did before it hit them. If only there were a way I could have seen it coming.
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Assume you could...but would you have? I mean, would you really have done anything differently?
(B/C a lot of LBS's admit, in retrospect, that there were signs or cries for help or warnings, but they chose to ignore them for whatever reason.)
But for this purpose, let's say you would have done something different...like what?
AND let's say you DID DO that thing...
what specific difference would that action have made? In my opinion, If this is a true MLC, then it's not about you.
If it's not a true MLC, then stop calling it that, and own your part of it.
Make sense?
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