Hey Tad, I now know that by doing things like asking my W to go and do things as a family, things that I just saw as normal H/W activities, my W saw as pressure. I may not understand why or how she got to that point but I know it's the case. What we, who aren't suffering from MLC see as loving gestures they saw as us pressuring them to feel a way they just couldn't.
Blieve me I'm not making excuses for them or saying they were right to feel that way. In hind sight I can see it now. MLC makes them think differently then we do or they did before it hit them. If only there were a way I could have seen it coming.
