Dropping the rope

[woundedfool]

Kind of freaking out ...

I sent H a text telling him my schedule got changed and because July 4th is my holiday to work I now have to work the next day, Saturday.

He said 'I'll be out of town' to which I said my parents have to work and I don't have anyone to watch them he said ' we will figure it out worse comes to worse I'll take them with me '

I asked to where and he replied to my boss house in Georgia (10 hours away).


I came up with the best reply I thought I could

Okay, if you're going alone that's alright, but if others are going it's in the boys best interest not to be anymore confused than they already are. They already have a lot going on and should be around people they know.'

I didn't want to deny him taking them
But the boys do not need to be around OW.

I just haven't been faced with this to know how to handle it.

IMhO, you handled it about as good as you could. Except..... come hell or high water, I would find someone I would trust to watch them. You must have some co-worker or someone around that could watch them during your shifts?