I read about your wife's pursuits for school but what are your plans? I ask this because my dad had to retire early from his military career in order to let my mom finish school (he had to watch over us kids). If you can't transfer to her school are you staying in CA? I will say this if your wife has any sort of mental instability school and relationships are near impossible to maintain. I know this because of my illness. I had to redo my undergrad after I was stabilized and i wasted a lot of money going in unstable. I think a huge thing you'll learn in these forums is that to be in a healthy relationship it starts with finding your own happiness and not relying on the other person. I learned that the hard way.
On that note if you want to save your marriage (that's why most of us come here) you have to come up with a plan of action on how you're going to GAL and improve on your goals. Gaming was actually a problem with me that my XH was bothered by. I actually stopped playing as aggressively when I forced myself to go out and explore the city. CA has a lot of awesome places to see. I bet you're at the base next to San Diego! Lego land!
