I went, wore a sundress H has admired before, shows off some of my best assets very well which he loves ;-) No wedges, you must not live near the beach Wonka, sand and wedges don't mix!
Had a delightful time sitting together and chatting while the kids played. It was gorgeous out. Was there for an hour or so. H was definitely back in the giddy/flirty zone.
He invited me to lunch tomorrow with him where his older daughter just started waitressing. It was very casual invite in conversation, I didn't really reply (actually, don't think I can go because of my work schedule tomorrow).
So I'm feeling quite good. Not just because of this really nice visit with H but more because I feel like I did a lot this weekend to get ME back on track. I think it showed in the convo with H too, I was able to chat about lots of stuff I did on my own around the house, visiting a really great friend and just totally had a positive attitude. Showed off fab, level headed, independent, interesting mdu a bit ;-)
So glad I am posting all this so I can refer back to exactly what I did to center myself when I'm spiraling. With a little help from all of you, of course ;-)
Oh and yes, I know, NO expectations! I'm just enjoying this for what it was, a lovely time.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
