I said I do but its come to a point where its up to you.. do whatever you want.. the balls in your court...
Not so fast, buddy. You have TONS and TONS of litter to sweep on YOUR side of the street. This is exactly what your W was alluding to you in convos with her. She's looking to see if you've made any changes and if they're consistent.
You've barely done any changes. Use the time apart to work on you and become the better man. Heck, if I were you, I'd look to Prince William as the model. [I'm using this example as you are in the UK] Never mind the trappings of royalty, he's bang on when he openly declared his priorities in an interview shortly after the birth of Prince George:
My priorities are Catherine and George. And of course Lupo.
Know what's made me an even more ardent admirer of Prince William? He's also backed up his words with ACTIONS. He's a real husband!! The real deal in that arena.